School safety plan for your child.

Sending the kids off to school is a frightening experience, whether it is the first time walking through those big double doors as a kindergartner, the first day of high school or somewhere in between. So many worries fill the minds of a parent as they send their young ones off to school. These worries oftentimes extend far beyond the normal getting good grades and preparing for a good college worries.

As a parent with a school-aged child, the worries filling your mind are numerous. We worry that our children will become the victim of a bully, or that they won’t be treated well by their teachers. Recent events place more burdens on the shoulders of a parent, as the worry of school violence increases.

Your Child at School.

It’s hard being a kid and don’t let anyone tell you differently. Each year of a child’s growth puts them more in tune with the world and with other people and provides them with a sense of who they really are, all while the worry of living up to the expectations of their parents, friends, and others; peer pressure; school worries; and more mound up in their still-growing, ever changing minds.

One of the biggest worries that a child has is being liked and accepted by others. Children at school can be very mean sometimes and it seems not to decrease with the grade level.

Teasing, cliques, name-calling, and other ways of poking fun at children seem to be a hard part of growing up that every child experiences at least minimally. It’s never easy to deal with.

Help your child understand that teasing and poking fun is never okay. If it is hurtful –it is NOT okay! Helping your child understand how to respond to in such a situation is especially helpful and may help avoid some of the traumas that can be left from these words that are so hurtful.

A few of the things that you can suggest to your child.

1. Your child should know that the most important thing to do when they feel that they are being picked on is to inform a trusted adult (teacher, principle, etc.) as soon as possible.

2. Teach your child how to calmly walk away from the situation.

3. Teach your child how to be confident in telling the person making fun of him/her to stop.

4. Help your child understand how not to respond to the teasing because it can make the person teasing only want to taunt them more.

5.Teach your child how to respond with their own joke or funny phrase which may defuse the situation or cause the child that is teasing to back down because they see that it is not going to bother your child.

By providing your child with a well-rounded home life that encourages positivity and builds self esteem from early on is one of the ways that your child can cope with the sometimes difficult and mean children they’ll go to school with.

By teaching your child how to be a friend to others with self-esteem building techniques at home, the negativity of other students should be much easier to deal with.

Should your child experience the teasing, name calling and other ill-mannered behaviors of their fellow students be there with an open ear to listen to your child and support them. Those positive talks and encouragements from mom and dad may seem to go in one ear and out the other, but they do sink in and your child will be thankful for your uplifting care and concern. Your support means more than anything to your child, especially at such a difficult time in their life.

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